Monday, October 9, 2017
Welcome, my friends, it’s Monday Blog time!!
I’ve been away for a couple of weeks and I’m happy to be back! I hope you’re all taking care of yourselves and minding your own business! I say that with the utmost respect. It’s just that recently I was reminded of situations that no matter how hard we may try to remain neutral and refrain from giving our sage advice, we’ll invariably find ourselves smack dab in the middle of somebody else’s business!
So a few days ago I was at the park enjoying my lovely walk and as I was listening to the melodious chirping of the birds overhead, I was interrupted by two speed-walking chatterbox females. As they flashed by me I heard one of them say: “I’ll be happy when…”. It was quite clear that they were in the process of changing the lives of a few friends…if not the whole world.
My interest was so peaked that It was obvious to me that if I was going to hear the rest of the story I had no choice but to speed up— So much for the lovely walk in the park! I sped up and stayed behind them just enough so that my intention to eavesdrop was not too obvious.
What was also rather interesting was the way in which they carried on this rapid-fire conversation. Each would say to the other: “I’ll be happy when…” and then each would fill in the blank, so to speak. Obviously I had not been on the front end of the conversation when it first began, however, I feel certain this is the normal way these two friends communicate, at least on their walks in the park. Here’s the gist of how their conversation went:
“I’ll be happy when: She wakes up. “
“I’ll be happy when: He grows up.”
“I’ll be happy when: She leaves.”
“I’ll be happy when: He leaves.”
“I’ll be happy when: She gets a job.”
“I’ll be happy when: He gets a job.”
“I’ll be happy when: She gets her degree.”
I’ll be happy when he get’s anything.”
This went on for about a quarter of a mile as I stumbled a few times trying to keep up, but never totally lost my footing; however, I’m pretty sure they were onto me, but they were so engrossed in their conversation, that the old lady limping closely behind them, poking her nose into their business, was just a small nuisance.
At first, I thought they were two mid-forty wives who were just venting about their better-halves. I changed my mind though, as the charge went on and I discovered they were discussing the dilemmas they were facing with their two grown children, a son and a daughter …the millennials!!
Frankly, I was relieved that it was just the millennials and not the better-halves. I believe these two “kids” can definitely improve and move past their present situations with the help of their loving Moms…(this was apparent). But if I applied the answers to a troubled marriage, that would have been a different issue all together. So, here’s me, ole’ busy-body-big-mouth-do-gooder just about to throw myself into their conversation in an attempt to save their troubled marriages. Oh brother!!
Fortunately for me and them, the good Lord stepped in instead, and I tripped over a huge, old oak tree root which ran across the path we all were traveling. On my way down, I must have yelled “oh no” or something to that affect, and before I knew it, they were on me like the National Guard!! I’m pretty sure I never even hit the ground. It’s truly amazing some of the situations I get myself into, but as the good Lord would have it, there’s always a very good reason behind every situation He takes me to. As for this one, I’m thinking He is teaching me to mind my own “beeswax”!!
So for me, “I’ll be happy when: I accept that I don’t have to save the world – that is God’s area.”
This week, let’s all pray and ask Jesus if there is something special He needs us to do in His holy name. If we ask and then hush and listen, we will hear His answer.
“Whatever you ask in my name, this I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask me in my name, I will do it.” – John 14:13-14
God is Good! God is Great!! Always!!!
I love you,
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