Monday, May 14, 2018
Welcome to my Monday Blog, dear friends! You’re all so appreciated and I’m so grateful for each one of you! You’re such a blessing to me in so many ways and I thank You…for YOU!!
Today, the first day after Mother’s Day, I’m just considering what we do between now and next Mother’s Day. In my case, my dear Mother went to heaven in 1997; however, I know without a doubt that she’s with me in spirit every single day. There are times when I can feel her presence…matter of fact, I could share with you some experiences I’ve had over these past twenty years, since she left here, but some of you may not believe me. That’s OK too, because some things are meant just for the receiver. I believe this is how our heavenly Father works in our lives… when we let Him. You know, He doesn’t force anything on us. He has given us all the gift of choice…in everything.
I choose to believe my Mother is one of my heavenly guardian angels and still to this day, watches over me and mine. Many of you have read my book and know how much I love and admire my Mother and why. God in His infinite wisdom, has no doubt, continued to bless me with my Mother, to guide me on her path to righteousness, even though she no longer “walks” this Earth with me, figuratively speaking. Yes, I’m blessed and I know it!
What does God say about Christian mothers?
*” Being a mother is a very important role that the lord chooses to give to many women. A Christian mother is told to love her children (Titus 2;4-5), in part so that she does not bring reproach on the Lord and on the Savior whose name she bears.”
Children are a gift from the Lord (Psalm 127:3-5). In Titus 2:4, the Greek word philoteknos appears in reference to mothers loving their children. This word represents a special kind of “mother love.” The idea that flows out of this word is that of caring for our children, nurturing them, meeting their needs, and tenderly befriending each one as a unique gift from the hand of God.
Several things are commanded of Christian mothers in God’s word:
Availability – morning noon, and night – Deuteronomy 6:6-7
Involvement – interacting, discussing, thinking, and processing life together: Ephesians 6:4
Teaching – the Scripture and biblical worldview – Psalm 78:56, Deut. 4:10, Eph. 6:4
Training – helping a child to develop skills and discover his/her strengths: Prov. 22;6, and spiritual gifts – Romans 12:3-8, 1 Corin. 12
Discipline – teaching the fear of the Lord, drawing the line consistently, loving, firmly: Ephs. 6:4, Hebrews, 12:5-11; Prov. 13:24, 19:18, 22:15, 23:13-14, 29:15-17
Nurture – providing an environment of constant verbal support, freedom to fail, acceptance, affection, unconditional love: Titus 2:4, 2 Timothy 1:7, Ephs. 4:29-32, 5:1-2, Galatians 5:22, 1Peter 3:8-9
Modeling with Integrity – living what you say, being a model from which a child can learn by “catching” the essence of godly living : Deut. 4:0, 15,23: Prov. 10:9, 11:3, Psalm 37:18, 37
The Bible never states that every woman should be a mother. However, it does say that those whom the Lord blesses to be mothers should take the responsibility seriously. Mothers have a unique and serious role in the lives of their children. Motherhood is not a chore or unpleasant task. Just as a mother bears a child during pregnancy, and just as a mother feeds and cares for a child during infancy, so mothers also play an ongoing role in the lives of their children, whether they are adolescents, teenagers, young adults, or even adults with children of their own. While the role of motherhood must change and develop, the love, care, nurture and encouragement a mother gives should never cease.”
A Mother’s job is quite clear and it’s obvious that a Mother’s work is never done! My dear Mother has been gone from here for twenty years now, however, she’s still loving me and teaching me every single day that I wake up. I love her so much!
“Honor thy Father and your Mother, that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord, they God is giving you.” – the Fifth Commandment – Exodus 20:12
The role of a Mother is probably the most important career a woman can ever have.
It’s my humble opinion that while we celebrate Mother’s Day only one day of each year, there are 364 more days in the year that we have an opportunity to show our love, appreciation and adoration for our dear Mothers.
I tell my Mother daily how much I love her and miss her being here…if only I could put my arms around her sweetness and hold her close to me, once again – oh, how wonderful that would be! Since I can’t do that, I pray and talk to her and thank her for all she did and still does with the unconditional love she bestowed upon me while she was here.
My prayer for us all this week is that whether your Mother is still here with you or gone on, please love and honor her as the Bible tells us. If you’re fortunate to still have your Mother here with you, then consider what else you might do to show her how much you honor and love her…every day of the year! Amen.
GOD is Good! GOD is Great!! Always!!!
I love you,
* A special Thank You to: Mothers of the Bible by Ann Spangler & Jean E. Syswerda
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